“Just the same, we can openly discuss acceptable topics, actions that will not destroy your boundaries. After all, in this way you make it clear that you are ready to abide by the rules of communication and the boundaries of other people. The environment is becoming more secure and open. As for ironic comments and labels, these are simply the established rules of the game in a team, in a family, where some can behave this way, while others are invited to endure and obey.
Of course, you need to try to work out the basic rules of relationships at the very beginning of your acquaintance. Boundaries are easily established during this period. You already accept or don’t accept the person as they are. It is known that it is impossible to change someone, but it is possible to openly and honestly find compromises. Build your boundaries so that you and your loved ones are safe around, ”said the psychologist.
