“First of all, you must not want to get married, do it brightly and openly. Like, I despise family ties and I am sufficient for myself. Those. these are the same slogans that a bachelor dictates. Hierarchically, friendship should be higher than relationships, and it is friendship, as a way to take responsibility and be close, that can inspire someone like Alexei Vorobyov to live for 10 years without a stamp in his passport, probably with repeated betrayals, because it is important for him to prove to himself his freedom.
A woman who decides to connect her life with such a man must demonstrate independence, at the same time care, repeating the patterns of his mother, and close it with the position “we are such friends, we are fine and so, without marriage and children.” From friendly sex, children are born, this does not need to be explained to anyone, and you should not consult a bachelor about this. The main thing is to position it as a personal choice: I gave birth, but what’s your business? If you want to be close to a bachelor, get ready to be his friend for many years and keep secrets, endure romances and intrigues that are painful for a woman in love, stay in spite of everything, and maybe one day it will be crowned with success, ”our expert advises.